Posted By taijhin at 12:13 PM - Thu Feb 21 2019
This seems a middle ground. People who want visible pregnancy for realism can't reasonably argue against debuffs and penalties for it. It certainly doesn't stop a woman cold, but this is a medieval type society, so as others have said, mortality rate would be high. Miscarriages would be high. That would be realism. Why contain pregnancy "for realism" but not contain the pitfalls that reality brings?
And while it's only like a week of game time, that is per child. And since a character only has a limited amount of game time, that week (or multiple weeks if multiple kids) could very well force female characters to be out of action disproportionately.
It would be realistic, but I wouldn't play a female character if it forced my already limited game time (compared with other games) to be spent in limited capacity. And again, if it's really about realism, then females get penalized.
We get the pregnancy debuff in real life, we don't need it in game. I am glad I can play female without having to invest more energy just to survive than male characters.
Disclaimer: I really don't care what they do with pregnancy
That being said your argument doesn't hold true to anything said so far. Why? Because I have not seen a single person who wants a partially realistic pregnancy advocate for having pregnancy debuffs/penalties (those that coincide with realistic pregnancy).
This is a low-mid fantasy game, meaning there are many elements to this game that are unrealistic (if not all), keeping that in mind it is reasonable to say if they implemented pregnancy it more than likely can be implemented unrealistically (as it stands now). Due to that fact, your example of why implementing realistic pregnancy would be bad, is a fallacy in of itself (since no one want it, and even if they did it would never be implemented realistically just like how everything in Elyria is unrealistic).
There are many good suggestions for and against implementing pregnancy without having to regard the realism of it.